Most of us have experienced the pain of rejection at one time or another; let’s face it—it’s terrible. Even when we don’t even like the people rejecting us, it can still hurt deeply. You see it in schools all the time as insecure kids establish the pecking order and dole out their acceptance to a few chosen recipients, leaving the others out in the cold. The feeling of being on the outside looking in can follow someone into adulthood leaving you wondering, What’s the magic sauce? What’s so different about other people and what’s wrong with me?